tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post113275906659130604..comments2023-09-23T07:06:57.553-05:00Comments on Some Words...: I stayed for meNetworkchichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09158414702993122385noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-74883040043134532662009-11-09T14:31:31.074-06:002009-11-09T14:31:31.074-06:00I stumbled across your blog in 2005, and havent be...I stumbled across your blog in 2005, and havent been keeping up with it. I just found out my ex of a year is engaged after only 10 months of being broken up with me and 5 months of a relationship. I am so happy that 4 years later I stumbled onto this particular post. It is EXACTLY what I needed. Thank you.Whiskey Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12053439905367186754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1133191408352183902005-11-28T09:23:00.000-06:002005-11-28T09:23:00.000-06:00So well written! Beautiful!So well written! Beautiful!Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08057045218422934609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1132809276285581722005-11-23T23:14:00.000-06:002005-11-23T23:14:00.000-06:00Thank so much for posting this. I, too moved so...Thank so much for posting this. I, too moved somewhere for a man (shhh, don't tell anyone). I think your writing and the style of your writing actually helps me in some weird way that I can't explain. I can always relate to your pain, it's as if you are telling me my life story with a little variance. <BR/><BR/>It is nice to know that you were able to say no thanks in the end. I am not sure I have grown enough to do that myself. I give you a lot of credit.Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00423490713505597436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1132795578545624172005-11-23T19:26:00.000-06:002005-11-23T19:26:00.000-06:00NWC, that was so beautiful and perfectly described...NWC, that was so beautiful and perfectly described the pain which so many of us have felt before. And the obsessive thing - scary, but so easy to fall into. <BR/><BR/>And by you taking the step to get the help, that showed your inner strength which we all see now!Caterpillarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01337099007066020997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1132784820188864562005-11-23T16:27:00.000-06:002005-11-23T16:27:00.000-06:00THANKS NWC, I think so many of go through somethi...THANKS NWC, I think so many of go through something like this, I know I have, and I felt pathetic, going through it, but getting to the other side I love that feeling of stregnth, and you wrote it so well... I can agree usually I get bored if its too long... thanks for sharing your humaness... Happy Thanksgiving!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07781628960161310563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1132784434337440732005-11-23T16:20:00.000-06:002005-11-23T16:20:00.000-06:00I am so touched by this post and I was rooting for...I am so touched by this post and I was rooting for you to rise up! Well done to you for doing what you needed to do to get over it and you are strong, brave person and don't forget it!NML/Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14649537721588885703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1132780544874372552005-11-23T15:15:00.000-06:002005-11-23T15:15:00.000-06:00I've come to Chicago to legal tech conferences. Y...I've come to Chicago to legal tech conferences. You guys KNOW how to eat. Aside from the intense cold I love the restaurants downtown and roaming around the city. But, I'm addicted to the climate and culture of the South.WoodChuckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09097795973452179981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1132777152716873742005-11-23T14:19:00.000-06:002005-11-23T14:19:00.000-06:00That was written so beautifully, NWC--you have a g...That was written so beautifully, NWC--you have a great gift to be able to express, in words, some of our most intangible feelings.TJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07458228472424378871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1132777023699475872005-11-23T14:17:00.000-06:002005-11-23T14:17:00.000-06:00Chuck, many thanks for reading my blog. I find it...Chuck, many thanks for reading my blog. I find it rather easy to write well when you know your thoughts and more importantly are willing to share them.<BR/><BR/>WDKY - my hindsight is 20/20Networkchichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09158414702993122385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1132773780412598702005-11-23T13:23:00.000-06:002005-11-23T13:23:00.000-06:00Well, you wrote that so beautifully that I was the...Well, you wrote that so beautifully that I was there by your side... and it hurt! The thing is, NWC, that so often we mistake what we think is love, <B>for</B> love. And maybe, in situations like this, it is at first, or at some time. It's like we can never see what's really happening ourselves, though...WDKYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15353336844486270059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1132772795492817822005-11-23T13:06:00.000-06:002005-11-23T13:06:00.000-06:00Isn't there a verse or something that goes somethi...Isn't there a verse or something that goes something like, "...and the two will become one flesh..." I know it's referring to marriage but I think in your case your heart was 'married' to his. I don't think we're made to be torn apart like you were. You were made for better. You will grow back stronger...it's called a scar. But scars can be a mark of distiction instead of shame. Glad the counseling's been good.<BR/><BR/> You're a good writer...I don't often read blogs this long without losing interest.WoodChuckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09097795973452179981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15042610.post-1132765632540933772005-11-23T11:07:00.000-06:002005-11-23T11:07:00.000-06:00Kudos. The most terrible experiences in our lives ...Kudos. The most terrible experiences in our lives that we think we will never get through, actually end up molding us into who we are.ladylongfellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14688913284976426393noreply@blogger.com